What if we have incompatible charts?

Natal Charts are maps not so much of an individual's personality as of our built-in gifts and challenges, the tools we have to work with in the project of Life Construction. The more we understand what those tools are and how to use them the more freedom we have to design our lives as we wish. The same is true when comparing two or more individuals' charts for compatibility. No two individuals are essentially compatible or incompatible, although it may certainly feel that way at times, but will, instead, share areas of potential harmony or disharmony with each other. The truth is that the psychological dynamics behind why we form the relationships we do are complex and often hidden from obvious view. If you have been through the frustratingly repeated experience of feeling magnetically attracted to certain people only to discover part way in to relationships with them what jerks they are then you know very well what I mean. Self-awareness is necessary to forming good relationships; if we do not even understand why we do the things we do, how are we ever going to understand why others do what they do? Chart comparison, like relationships themselves, can teach us as much about our own natures as they can about those of the people we are relating to. It brings to light all of the complex relational dynamics between two people and provides the information needed not only for answers but solutions to our most pressing relationship problems. Let the ancient art of synastry, attuned to modern issues, shed light on all of your relationships. The choice is yours, of course.