Is he/she the one for me?

Here we have one of the most frequently asked questions of any relationship astrologer, and for good reason. Relationships can be complex, anybody who has ever been involved in a few can vouch for this, and never more so than when we are considering our choice for a life partner or other long-term commitment. Even when we find ourselves madly in love with someone, there are always at least a few things about our partner that give us pause: their careless attitude towards money, their nosey family, the fact that his/her idea of ultimate happiness is to live in the frozen tundra observing polar bears. Relationships inevitably require compromise and like any smart investor we want to know what we are getting into before we part with our hard-earned freedoms. Synastry can be invaluable in this regard as means of coming to understand all of the ins and outs of partnership with this individual thus allowing you to make a wise and informed decision. It cannot tell if he/she is "the one"; that is totally up to you. It can tell you, however, if what you think you are seeing is what you are actually getting ... and which of us would not want to know that!