Should I break up with him/her?

The decision of whether or not to end a relationship is typically one of the hardest we have to make and, consequently, one of the most stress producing. The creation and maintenance of human relationships require a significant investment of personal resources, i.e., time, emotions, money, energy, and health. As with any investment we have to determine what the relationship is costing us, what benefit we are receiving from it, and whether the latter is worth continuing with the former or not. Of course, unlike a cost-benefit analysis of one's stock portfolio, the stakes are much higher and the consequences potentially more severe. Relationships of any depth or power require the engagement of one's Soul, or at least portions of the Soul, so that ending one feels like a kind of death; it has the capacity to unleash our own personal ghosts of fear and loss. We must ask ourselves, therefore, if we are realistically prepared to face those ghosts and, in situations of marriage or cohabitation, if the practical tasks that lay ahead (moving, budgeting for a single income, dividing shared resources, accessing legal assistance, providing for child care, etc.) will be hampered or helped by their presence. In certain relationships it may be necessary to prepare for the likelihood of retaliation, requiring you to determine in advance how best to keep you and your loved ones safe. There are as many possible considerations to entertain as there are personalities involved so no short answer can possibly address them all. First and foremost, however, your primary task is always to be honest with yourself, to know with certainty what it is you want regardless of your ability to make logical sense of it. The deeper parts of our psyches where relationships originate do not operate by the rules of logic. Astrology has the ability to shed light on those deeper parts as well as to determine the appropriate timing for making major changes. Individually attuned to your unique personality and relationship, it can you provide you with a level of insight and knowledge available in no other form. Now is the time to learn how an ancient art can help you to make the most of your difficult decisions.